About Mediation

What is Mediation?

Mediation is a process by which a neutral third party called a mediator helps people in conflict negotiate a mutually acceptable agreement. The parties to the mediation control the outcome. A mediator facilitates communication, promotes understanding, assists the parties to identify their needs and interests, and uses creative problem solving techniques to enable the parties to reach their own agreement.

Mediation gives parties much more control over the way their dispute or difference is dealt with and over the outcome. If negotiations have so far failed, mediation provides an alternative to pursuing litigation or other more formal processes. The scope for solutions is usually greater than the remedies available in courts and tribunals, or even in prolonged negotiation.

Why Choose Mediation?

By mediating your disputes, you are able to maintain complete control over decision-making and can then make informed decisions about the issues affecting your life. People are more often satisfied with the process and outcome of mediation rather than the fear of going to court. This is because the mediator helps people in conflict to focus on the specific issues relevant to their personal situation. It is also because of the time and cost involved in going to court. Most parties generally want to do the right thing, especially when children are involved, mediation allow parties to not get boxed into situations they can’t get out of without losing face. Mediation allows peoples integrity and sense of self to be the best they can be by ensuring the tone and safety of the issues are managed and controlled with dignity.
A neutral mediator assists the negotiations - ensuring that information is gathered and shared, that interests are stated, and that goals are achieved. Decisions are never imposed, but rather developed and ultimately made by the couple themselves. Clients participating in the resolution of their own conflicts is not only empowering but also increases the likelihood of compliance in the long term.

How Mediation Works

Couples or the parties meet together in approximately 2 -4 hour sessions with an experienced, trained Mediation. The number of sessions necessary to reach a settlement varies, depending on the complexity of the issues presented and the level of communication between the couple. The average session takes around 2-3 hours. It is important to follow the process that is set down for a success mediation. The process is outlined by the mediator, depending on the dispute and after it has been screened. Mediation is a completely voluntary process and may be ended at any time by either participant. Mediators have undergone specific training to effectively facilitate negotiations.